Wintering by Katherine May is a captivating memoir about the author’s experience of wintering, or taking a pause for reflection during a time of transition. Through anecdotes and introspection, May muses on the beauty and despair of winter, and what it’s like to exist in a time between “what was” and “what will be.”
In chapter one, May introduces her life-changing experience of wintering. She begins to contemplate lessons she learned in the past to prepare herself for the journey ahead. She recalls how the chill of winter is different from the summer heat and how the silence of the season brings a sense of stillness. As an example, May talks about how she took a break from her busy life and traveled to Scotland where, in the quiet of winter, she was able to find peace.
In chapter two, May focuses on the idea of impermanence and how the winter season begs us to be mindful of our emotions and accept the things that are out of our control. She expresses how the unknowns of wintering can be uncomfortable and difficult and yet, at the same time, it can allow us to reflect and make difficult decisions with a clearer mindset. As an example, May shares the story of her cat, Bobcat, and how she had to give her away and come to terms with letting go.
In chapter three, May explores the idea of self-care and why it’s important to slow down and allow ourselves to winter. She explains how wintering can help us to examine our habits and break unhealthy patterns. Furthermore, it can give us time to explore passions, practice empathy, and dig deeper into our personal needs. As an example, May talks about her time at her cottage in rural Scotland and how she took that time to focus on her writing and pursue her interests.
In chapter four, May discusses how winter can bring periods of deep sadness and sadness can bring growth. While she acknowledges that sadness can be difficult to process, she emphasizes the importance of feeling our emotions and allowing ourselves the time to process and heal. As an example, May shares her experience of wintering after the death of her grandfather, and how she found the strength to honor his memory and in turn, found a newfound appreciation of life.
In the final chapter, May reflects on the significance of wintering and how it can open up opportunities for growth. She emphasizes how stepping away from the busyness of life can allow us to take stock of our experiences and realize that we are capable of healing and finding inner peace. As an example, May shares that after her journey of wintering, she was able to reconnect with her loved ones and find the courage to pursue her passion for writing.
Overall, May’s memoir captures the intricate beauty and emotional power of wintering. Her anecdotes and wisdom reveal the importance of taking a step back to reflect and learn how to better care for ourselves. Through her unique perspective, May encourages her readers to embrace the unknown and experience the growth that comes from wintering.
