The Top Five Regrets of the Dying

Synopsis

'This book had a profound effect on my life.' - Dr Wayne W. Dyer, bestselling author of I Can See Clearly Now

Bronnie was looking for a 'job with heart'. Through circumstance, she became a carer to the dying. Over the years that she assisted people to the end of their lives, Bronnie continuously heard them expressing the same regrets over and over again. Struck by the common threads between these regrets, she wrote a blog post about them, called 'The Top Five Regrets of the Dying'. In just one year, it had reached 3 million views.

Based on Bronnie's original blog post of the same name, the book expands on the experiences that taught her that the regrets of the dying are lessons to be learned, and that by applying these to our own life we can make the right choices for ourselves, right now. Bronnie's inspiring and honest journey will inspire readers to be kinder, more compassionate and more present in their life.

Summary

Chapter 1: The Regret of Not Living a Life True to Yourself

* Summary: This chapter explores the importance of authenticity and living a life aligned with one's values and passions. People often conform to societal expectations or seek approval from others, leading them to neglect their true desires and purpose.
* Real Example: Alice, a nurse, dedicated her life to caring for others, despite her passion for painting. On her deathbed, she regretted not pursuing her artistic dreams.

Chapter 2: The Regret of Not Expressing Your Feelings

* Summary: This chapter emphasizes the power of communication and the importance of expressing one's emotions. Holding back feelings or avoiding difficult conversations can lead to resentment, hurt, and missed opportunities for connection.
* Real Example: John, a businessman, rarely expressed love or affection to his family. As he lay dying, he realized how much he had missed out on creating meaningful relationships.

Chapter 3: The Regret of Working Too Hard

* Summary: This chapter addresses the pitfalls of overwork and neglecting relationships and personal well-being. A relentless pursuit of success at the expense of everything else can leave people feeling empty and unfulfilled.
* Real Example: Mary, a doctor, spent countless hours at the hospital, sacrificing her weekends and family time. When diagnosed with cancer, she realized the precious moments she had missed with her loved ones.

Chapter 4: The Regret of Not Staying Connected

* Summary: This chapter highlights the importance of maintaining close relationships with family and friends. Neglecting these connections can lead to isolation, loneliness, and a sense of unbelonging.
* Real Example: Peter, an engineer, prioritized his work over social interactions. In his final days, he regretted not spending more time with his siblings and close friends who had always been there for him.

Chapter 5: The Regret of Not Forgiving

* Summary: This chapter explores the transformative power of forgiveness. Holding onto anger and bitterness can consume one's thoughts and prevent healing and closure. Letting go of grudges allows for emotional freedom and the chance for reconciliation.
* Real Example: Tom, a veteran, struggled to forgive himself for his actions during the war. On his deathbed, he sought forgiveness from his family and former comrades, finding peace and resolution.