Smart Single Muslimah: Transform how you approach love and marriage: A Muslim Marriage guide for single Muslim women

Synopsis

Are you looking for a God-conscious husband who will be compatible with you?

Getting married is one of the most important decisions of your life. So, before you embark on your marriage journey, you need answers so you have clarity and the confidence to find a compatible husband.

Smart Single Muslimah is a thought-provoking Muslim marriage guide for Muslim women. In the book, you'll discover:

• How to find a husband
• How to find out if you are compatible
• What questions to ask a potential spouse

How to deal with disappointment

Adopting a smart Islamic approach to relationships is about following some simple prophetic principles that will help you change your habits and attitudes about getting married. If you want honest pre-marriage advice that addresses contemporary issues you're facing. Then you'll love Farhat Amin's perceptive book.

Buy Smart Single Muslimah to begin your marriage journey today!

"The book covers a very important topic, I absolutely loved the introduction
Farhat has very accurately identified capitalism, liberalism and feminism as key ideologies that are affecting the way women see themselves today." FATIMA BARKATULLAH - Ilmfeed Podcast host

"Farhat hits the nail on the head in her chapter on 'Men are trash: really?" Her writing delves into unpopular topics that need to be said, but not many want to say it. Her realism is refreshing." ZAKEEYA ALI - Author, www.zakeeyaali.com

"Alhumdulilah, the chapter about racism in the Muslim marriage scene is excellent, really enjoyed it and I think Farhat did a great job of showcasing why and how we ought to remove these biases from ourselves and our family members." NURIDDEEN KNIGHT - Author, 40 Hadith of Our Mother 'Aisha

"I have been helping people get married for over 11 years and this is by far, one of the best books I have read for Muslims looking to get married. It covers everything from A to Z and uses Islamic references points. If I had to recommend one book for single Muslim women to read, it would be this. If you're serious about getting married, buy this book and read it." BABA ALI - www.halfourdeen.com

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Summary

Chapter 1: Introspection and Self-Development

This chapter emphasizes the importance of self-knowledge and growth for Muslim single women seeking marriage. It encourages them to reflect on their values, goals, and personal qualities, and to work on improving themselves through education, personal development, and spiritual practices.

Example: A woman named Khadijah takes a personality assessment to better understand her strengths and weaknesses. She discovers that she is an introvert who values deep connections, which helps her refine her approach to meeting potential partners.

Chapter 2: The Concept of Tawheed in Marriage

This chapter discusses the Islamic concept of tawheed, which emphasizes the unity of God and its implications for marriage. It explores the importance of seeking a partner who shares similar beliefs and values, as well as the role of trust, respect, and communication in a healthy Muslim marriage.

Example: Sarah and Omar met at a Muslim youth group. They discovered that they shared a strong faith in God and a commitment to living according to Islamic principles. This common ground became a solid foundation for their relationship and subsequent marriage.

Chapter 3: Setting Boundaries and Criteria

This chapter guides women in establishing clear boundaries and criteria for potential partners. It advises them to identify their non-negotiables, such as religious compatibility, shared goals, and personality traits, to help them avoid incompatible relationships.

Example: Amina created a list of values that were important to her in a partner, including integrity, kindness, and a strong work ethic. She used this list to guide her interactions with potential suitors.

Chapter 4: Navigating the Marriage Market

This chapter discusses the different ways Muslim women can meet potential partners, such as through family introductions, friends, online platforms, or halal dating apps. It provides tips for staying safe, maintaining privacy, and approaching the marriage search with a positive mindset.

Example: Zahra attended community events and joined a Muslim networking group to expand her circle of acquaintances. She also created a profile on a halal dating app, where she connected with a man who shared her religious beliefs and aspirations.

Chapter 5: Building a Meaningful Connection

This chapter focuses on the importance of building a deep, authentic connection with a potential partner. It emphasizes the value of spending quality time together, engaging in meaningful conversations, and sharing common interests.

Example: Maryam and Khaled met through a mutual friend. They started spending time together, exploring their passions, and sharing their dreams. This connection led to a strong emotional bond and eventually a marriage proposal.

Chapter 6: Maintaining a Balanced Life

This chapter reminds women that marriage is not their sole focus in life. It encourages them to pursue their education, careers, and personal interests while also seeking a partner. It emphasizes the importance of healthy boundaries and open communication to ensure that marriage complements other aspects of their lives.

Example: Fatima is a successful entrepreneur with a busy work schedule. She makes time for meeting potential partners but also sets clear boundaries to protect her career and personal well-being.