Raising Good Humans is an amazing book written by Alexandra Curry which provides extensive advice to parents for raising kind, caring, and compassionate children. The book explains the How of raising children by becoming their ‘guide on the side’ rather than the ‘sage on the stage’, and encourages parents to give their children the support and freedom to become who they want to be. It also discusses the importance of developing well-rounded, socially conscious children and creating a strong bond with them.
Chapter 1: A Good Start sets the stage for understanding how parents can contribute to raising children who have good character and judgment, and are empathetic to others in their community. The chapter explains the importance of creating a strong bond and an environment at home that encourages open, honest communication and encourages a child to develop their own moral compass. For example, by recognizing their children’s feelings and valuing them, parents can develop a positive relationship with their children and help them grow into their best self.
Chapter 2: Character Development delves into the idea of teaching good character and judgment by setting up opportunities for children to learn through experience. The authors emphasize that children learn best when they are actively engaged in an experience and discuss how to use socialization and media exposure in a positive way to help children build character. As an example, parents can set an example for their children by discussing issues such as fairness, kindness, and respect with their children and modeling the behavior they would like their children to have. In doing so, children will begin to understand concepts like these and have the opportunity to practice them in their everyday life.
Chapter 3: Nurturing Hearts and Minds delves into the importance of emotional intelligence and how to nurture a child’s emotional health and development. The authors share the importance of teaching children how to recognize and manage their emotions and how to develop empathy and understanding for others. As an example, parents should take the time to listen and talk to their children to help them develop their emotional awareness. They can also help train their children to think critically through guided exercises and by asking them meaningful questions to prompt their thought processes.
Lastly, Chapter 4: A Better World shares the ways in which parents can nurture their children into socially conscious adults by having open conversations about current social issues and modeling check, involved, responsible citizens. Additionally, the authors share possible ways to make an impact on the world such as volunteering or joining a fundraising organisation. An example of this would be to get involved with local nonprofits such as food banks or animal shelters as well as to regularly talk to their children about global issues such as climate change. By discussing and demonstrating ways in which we can make a positive impact on our world, parents can help to instill the importance of helping others and working towards a better society.
Overall, Raising Good Humans is an exceptional book for parents looking for an in-depth guide on how to properly raise kind, caring, and compassionate children who have good character and judgment. The book provides comprehensive advice on creating a strong bond, teaching children to recognize and manage emotions, and developing well-rounded, socially conscious adults. By following the book’s advice, parents can help their children become their best selves and make a positive impact on their community.
