The Four Agreements

Synopsis

In The Four Agreements, bestselling author don Miguel Ruiz reveals the source of self-limiting beliefs that rob us of joy and create needless suffering. Based on ancient Toltec wisdom, The Four Agreements offer a powerful code of conduct that can rapidly transform our lives to a new experience of freedom, true happiness, and love.

  A New York Times bestseller for over a decade
  An international bestseller published in 52 languages worldwide
 
"This book by don Miguel Ruiz, simple yet so powerful, has made a tremendous difference in how I think and act in every encounter." - Oprah Winfrey

"Don Miguel Ruiz's book is a roadmap to enlightenment and freedom." - Deepak Chopra, Author, The Seven Spiritual Laws of Success

"An inspiring book with many great lessons." - Wayne Dyer, Author, Real Magic

"In the tradition of Castaneda, Ruiz distills essential Toltec wisdom, expressing with clarity and impeccability what it means for men and women to live as peaceful warriors in the modern world." - Dan Millman, Author, Way of the Peaceful Warrior

Summary

Chapter 1: Be Impeccable with Your Word

* Impeccability: Speaking and acting in a way that aligns with your highest truth and integrity.
* Real Example: Instead of gossiping or spreading rumors, choose to speak only truthful and positive words about others, even if it means holding back your own opinions.

Chapter 2: Don't Take Anything Personally

* Personalization: Assuming that others' actions and words are directed specifically at you, which can lead to misunderstandings and resentment.
* Real Example: If someone criticizes your work, don't take it as a personal attack. Recognize that their feedback is a reflection of their own perspective, not a judgment of your worth.

Chapter 3: Don't Make Assumptions

* Assumptions: Creating stories and beliefs about others without having clear evidence, which can lead to misunderstandings and conflict.
* Real Example: Instead of assuming that your partner is angry with you, ask them directly if there's anything wrong. This allows for open communication and avoids potential misunderstandings.

Chapter 4: Always Do Your Best

* Personal Best: Striving to do your best in every situation, regardless of the outcome.
* Real Example: Even if you don't succeed at a particular task, recognize the effort and progress you made. This helps build confidence and reduces the fear of failure.

Chapter 5: The Dream of the Planet

* Dream of the Planet: A vision of a peaceful and harmonious world where all beings live in alignment with these four agreements.
* Real Example: Participate in activities or organizations that promote empathy, compassion, and unity, such as volunteering or environmental activism.