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The Family Experience of PDA


Synopsis


Eliza Fricker gets it. Describing her perfectly imperfect experience of raising a PDA child, with societal judgements and internal pressures, it is easy to feel overwhelmed, resentful and alone. This book's comedic illustrations explain these challenging situations and feelings in a way that words simply cannot, will bring some much-needed levity back into PDA parenting. Humorous anecdotes with a compassionate tone remind parents that they are not alone, and they're doing a great job. If children are safe, happy, and you leave the house on time, who cares about some smelly socks?
A light-hearted and digestible guide to being a PDA parent covering everything from tolerance levels, relationships and meltdowns to collaboration, flexibility, and self care to dip in and out as your schedule allows to help get to grips with this complex condition.

This book is an essential read for any parent with a PDA child, to help better understand your child, build support systems and carve out some essential self care time guilt free.

Summary

Chapter 1: Understanding PDA

* Introduces Pathological Demand Avoidance (PDA) as a neurodevelopmental condition characterized by excessive resistance to demands or expectations.
* Explores the diagnostic criteria and common symptoms, such as intense fear of loss of control, avoidance of situations that may induce anxiety, and inflexibility in routines.

Example: A child with PDA may avoid going to school because they fear being told what to do or having their schedule disrupted.

Chapter 2: The Family Impact of PDA

* Examines the profound impact PDA can have on family life, including relationship strains, heightened stress levels, and isolation from social support.
* Discusses the challenges parents face in managing their child's behavior and meeting their emotional needs.

Example: Parents may experience burnout and frustration due to the constant power struggles and emotional intensity associated with PDA.

Chapter 3: Supporting Families with PDA

* Provides practical strategies for professionals and families to support individuals with PDA and their loved ones.
* Emphasizes the importance of understanding the individual's perspective, building trust, and addressing sensory and emotional needs.

Example: A therapist may help parents create a supportive home environment that fosters the child's sense of control and reduces anxiety.

Chapter 4: Interventions for Children and Adolescents with PDA

* Explores evidence-based interventions specifically designed to address the challenges of PDA, such as Collaborative Problem Solving (CPS), Attachment and Biobehavioral Catch-up, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT).
* Provides step-by-step guidance on implementing these interventions effectively.

Example: A child with PDA may engage in CPS sessions to learn problem-solving skills and improve their ability to navigate conflicts more effectively.

Chapter 5: Parenting Children and Adolescents with PDA

* Offers practical advice for parents on how to establish a positive and supportive relationship with their child with PDA.
* Covers topics such as communication strategies, boundary setting, and managing meltdowns.

Example: Parents may adopt a "two-track" approach, providing structure and support while also respecting their child's need for flexibility and autonomy.

Chapter 6: Sibling Relationships and PDA

* Explores the impact of PDA on siblings, who may experience resentment, guilt, or confusion about their sibling's behavior.
* Discusses strategies for supporting siblings and fostering positive sibling relationships.

Example: Parents may encourage siblings to engage in activities that allow them to bond and understand their sibling's perspective.

Chapter 7: Education and PDA

* Addresses the challenges and opportunities for children and adolescents with PDA in educational settings.
* Discusses the importance of providing differentiated support, creating a supportive learning environment, and collaborating with parents.

Example: A teacher may create a "safe space" in the classroom where a student with PDA can retreat during moments of anxiety or sensory overload.

Chapter 8: PDA in Adulthood

* Explores the unique challenges faced by adults with PDA, including difficulties with employment, relationships, and self-regulation.
* Provides guidance on seeking support, accessing appropriate services, and developing coping mechanisms.

Example: An adult with PDA may use a visual schedule or fidget tools at work to manage their anxiety and improve their productivity.