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The Conversation Train


Synopsis


This inventive colour picture book uses the metaphor of a train to teach basic conventions of conversation to children with autism spectrum disorders (ASDs).

Engines are like greetings; they get the train going. Freight wagons are like different speakers' turns; it is good to have at least a few when you are in conversation. A set of points guiding a train from one track to another is like a tactful change in the topic of conversation. When a conversation veers off-topic it is like a derailed train. As well as attractive colour photographs of trains, the book contains engaging photocopiable worksheets and colouring pages to help promote skill generalisation.

This highly visual approach to conversation is ideally suited to children with ASDs aged approximately 5-13.

Joel Shaul

Summary

Chapter 1: The Power of Conversation

* Introduces the importance of conversation in personal and professional life.
* Provides examples of how conversations can improve relationships, resolve conflicts, and boost innovation.
* Real example: A couple who used effective communication to resolve a misunderstanding and strengthen their bond.

Chapter 2: The Elements of Conversation

* Explains the key elements of a conversation, including empathy, active listening, and respect.
* Discusses the importance of non-verbal cues and the role they play in conveying meaning.
* Real example: A businesswoman who used active listening and empathy to connect with a potential client and secure a deal.

Chapter 3: Getting on Track

* Provides strategies for starting conversations, introducing new topics, and maintaining momentum.
* Emphasizes the importance of finding common ground and building rapport.
* Real example: A manager who uses icebreakers and personal anecdotes to engage employees and create a positive team environment.

Chapter 4: The Art of Listening

* Explores the challenges and benefits of active listening.
* Offers techniques for asking clarifying questions, paraphrasing, and summarizing.
* Real example: A doctor who uses active listening to better understand and address their patients' concerns.

Chapter 5: Navigating Difficult Conversations

* Provides guidance on how to handle difficult conversations, such as confrontations, disagreements, and apologies.
* Emphasizes the importance of staying calm, being transparent, and finding a mutually acceptable solution.
* Real example: A student who navigated a difficult conversation with their professor to discuss a disagreement over an assignment.

Chapter 6: Conversation in the Digital Age

* Explores the impact of technology on conversation.
* Discusses the benefits and drawbacks of virtual communication and provides strategies for building relationships online.
* Real example: A team that uses video conferencing to collaborate effectively and build trust despite being geographically dispersed.

Chapter 7: The Conversation Continuum

* Introduces the concept of the "conversation continuum," which spans casual chats to formal presentations.
* Provides tips for adapting conversational style to different contexts.
* Real example: A teacher who adjusts her communication style to engage students in both small group discussions and large class presentations.

Chapter 8: The Power of Storytelling

* Emphasizes the power of storytelling in creating connections and conveying messages.
* Offers techniques for crafting effective stories and using them to persuade, inspire, and entertain.
* Real example: A sales representative who uses storytelling to close deals and build lasting relationships with clients.