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Talkabout for Teenagers


Synopsis


Talkabout for Teenagers is a bestselling professional workbook supporting educators and therapists who deliver social and relationship skills groups for older children and young adults with social, emotional or behavioural difficulties.

It is a complete group work resource that offers a hierarchical approach, with ready-made material to assist teaching social and relationship skills specifically to older children and young adults.

Resources include:

  • an assessment framework
  • planning and evaluation forms
  • 37 structured session guides focussing on self-awareness and self-esteem, body language, conversational skills, friendship skills and assertiveness
  • all the supplementary handouts and images needed to deliver the sessions.

This second edition is presented with full-colour illustrations and handouts, and includes a new introduction by Alex Kelly reflecting on her own experiences of using the resources since they were first developed.

Alex Kelly, Brian Sains

Summary

Chapter 1: Getting to Know You

This chapter introduces the concept of icebreakers and conversation starters, emphasizing the importance of making a good first impression. It provides practical examples and exercises for breaking the ice and getting to know others better.

Real example: Playing the "Two Truths and a Lie" game to encourage participants to share interesting facts about themselves.

Chapter 2: Making Friends

This chapter explores the qualities of good friendships and how to build strong relationships. It discusses topics such as trust, loyalty, communication, and conflict resolution.

Real example: Role-playing a scenario where two friends disagree on something, demonstrating healthy ways to communicate and find a compromise.

Chapter 3: Dating and Relationships

This chapter provides guidance on navigating romantic relationships in adolescence. It covers topics such as dating etiquette, communication, setting boundaries, and handling rejection.

Real example: Simulating a first date conversation to practice active listening, asking open-ended questions, and showing interest in the other person.

Chapter 4: Social Media Savvy

This chapter addresses the role of social media in teenage communication. It explores the benefits and potential pitfalls of online interactions and provides tips for using social media responsibly and effectively.

Real example: Having participants create a social media profile that reflects their interests and values, discussing the importance of privacy settings and online safety.

Chapter 5: Confidence Building

This chapter focuses on developing self-confidence and overcoming shyness or social anxiety. It provides strategies for improving body language, reducing negative self-talk, and challenging limiting beliefs.

Real example: Leading a group meditation or mindfulness exercise to promote self-awareness and reduce stress, which can contribute to increased confidence.

Chapter 6: Communicating Effectively

This chapter discusses the importance of clear and effective communication in all areas of life. It covers topics such as verbal and nonverbal communication, listening skills, and resolving misunderstandings.

Real example: Engaging in a role-play activity where participants practice active listening, empathy, and conflict resolution techniques.

Chapter 7: Handling Difficult Conversations

This chapter provides tools for navigating challenging conversations with peers, parents, or other adults. It covers topics such as setting boundaries, expressing feelings respectfully, and seeking support when needed.

Real example: Simulating a conversation between a teenager and a parent who has concerns about their social media usage, demonstrating effective communication and problem-solving skills.

Chapter 8: Getting Help

This chapter emphasizes the importance of seeking help when communication or social interactions become overwhelming. It provides information on accessing mental health resources, support groups, and trusted adults.

Real example: Guest speaker from a local mental health organization sharing information about their services and promoting the message that it's okay to ask for help when needed.