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How Not to Lose It


Synopsis


 

The go-to mental health guide for kids from expert Anna Williamson - therapist, Childline counsellor and ambassador for Mind and The Prince's Trust.

Exam stress? Friendship issues? Panic attacks?

How Not to Lose It will help you be the boss of all of this, and more.

It's not just your body that should be fit and healthy - your mind needs to be, too! How Not to Lose It is the go-to guide for achieving a balanced mind and strong emotional well-being.

  • With immediate, heart of the matter advice and a chatty yet honest tone, Anna Williamson addresses all of the key issues affecting children today.

'A fabulous message for young people - believe in yourselves!' Liz Rowe, Childline

TOPICS COVERED:

  • anxiety
  • depression
  • stress
  • friendship
  • bullying
  • relationships and sex
  • family life and bereavement
  • phobias
  • peer pressure
  • self-harm
  • self-esteem and confidence.

About the Publisher

Scholastic

Scholastic

Scholastic is an award-winning publisher of original children's books. Scholastic publishes more than 600 new hardcover, paperback, and novelty books each year. The list includes the phenomenally successful publishing properties Harry Potter? and Captain Underpants?, the beloved series Clifford The Big Red Dog?, Goosebumps?, The 39 Clues?, I Spy?, Bone, The Magic School Bus?, Fly Guy, Geronimo Stilton, and The Hunger Games trilogy.

Summary

Chapter 1: Losing It

* Examines the prevalence and consequences of stress in modern life.
* Real example: A doctor feeling overwhelmed by the demands of their job, resulting in irritability, insomnia, and difficulty concentrating.

Chapter 2: The Stress Response and the Brain

* Explains the physiological and psychological mechanisms of stress.
* Real example: A student experiencing anxiety before an exam, triggering the release of cortisol and adrenaline, leading to increased heart rate and heightened alertness.

Chapter 3: Cognitive Distortions

* Identifies common cognitive distortions that contribute to stress.
* Real example: A person assuming they will fail a job interview because they made a small mistake in their application, leading to self-doubt and negative thoughts.

Chapter 4: Mindful Breathing and Acceptance

* Introduces mindfulness techniques, such as deep breathing and acceptance, to reduce stress.
* Real example: A professional athlete using deep breathing exercises to calm their nerves before a competition, improving focus and performance.

Chapter 5: Identifying and Challenging Triggers

* Helps readers identify their stress triggers and develop strategies to cope with them.
* Real example: A person realizing that traffic is a significant stressor for them and implementing carpooling or public transportation as an alternative.

Chapter 6: Stress-Reducing Habits

* Provides practical tips for incorporating stress-reducing habits into daily life.
* Real example: A busy parent scheduling regular exercise sessions to manage stress and improve their mood.

Chapter 7: Setting Boundaries

* Emphasizes the importance of setting boundaries to protect time and energy.
* Real example: A colleague learning to say no to additional tasks when they already have a full workload, reducing stress and maintaining a healthy work-life balance.

Chapter 8: Mindful Communication

* Explores techniques for communicating effectively in stressful situations.
* Real example: A couple developing strategies for resolving conflicts peacefully and respectfully, reducing tension and improving their relationship.

Chapter 9: Self-Compassion

* Teaches readers to practice self-compassion and treat themselves with kindness.
* Real example: A person recognizing their own strengths and accomplishments, building self-esteem and reducing stress-induced self-criticism.

Chapter 10: Reframing Stress as an Opportunity

* Shifts perspective on stress as a potential catalyst for growth and learning.
* Real example: A business owner experiencing stress from a major project deadline, using it as motivation to improve their time management skills and tap into their creativity.